SHAH ALAM - Overprotective parenting is reshaping the sports landscape for Gen Z athletes, hindering the development of resilience and independence.
Unlike previous generations, where parents maintained a more distant role, today’s parents frequently insert themselves into their children’s athletic journeys, often overriding decisions traditionally made by coaches.
Sports professionals express concern that this involvement impedes the emotional and mental growth of young athletes.
Speaking on Sinar Daily's Sports Matters podcast, World No 1 lawn bowler Nor Farah Ain Abdullah claimed that excessive parental protection deprives athletes of vital experiences, such as learning from criticism, managing failure and cultivating grit—qualities essential for long-term success in both sports and life.
"Gen Z athletes appear quite pampered. Unlike athletes of the past, whose parents allowed them to attend training independently, today's parents are heavily involved.
"In the past, criticism and rigorous training were accepted as part of the process, and parents remained uninvolved," she said.
Farah stated that there is a growing trend of parents interfering in coaching matters, a shift she believes undermines athlete development.
"Parents often meddle in coaching decisions, which is detrimental.
"Children should learn to be brave and independent without constant parental supervision. Why must parents accompany their children during training? They need to experience criticism and correction—that's how coaches teach," she said.
While Farah acknowledged the necessity of intervention in cases of serious issues, such as physical harm, she stressed that routine coaching practices, even when demanding, are crucial for athlete growth.
"If a coach crosses the line, such as inflicting physical harm, parental intervention is justified.
"However, for regular training or intensive practice, children should be allowed to navigate the process. Criticism is a normal part of coaching," she added.
Known for her disciplined sports management style, Farah believes that strictness cultivates resilient athletes.
"Athletes can only be guided. I am strict in my teaching. Whether they can handle it or not, they must listen, as strictness leaves a lasting impression.
"Tough lessons are often the most memorable and provide valuable experiences," she said.
Farah maintained that coaching principles remain consistent across generations.
However, parental interference has compelled many coaches to soften their approach.
"Coaches retain their teaching methods, but parental involvement forces them to moderate their demeanor," she said.